They grow up so fast!

I know it is a cliche that children grow up so fast. But this week, has been an eye opener as to how fast time really does go by. Tre started first grade this year, and every so often I see a new, more grown-up, independent behavior emerging. Well, this week broke my heart. My six year no longer wants me to kiss and hug him around other people. He tearfully explained to me that it embarrasses him, and he just doesn't like it. Through my own tears, I told him I understand, and then we reached an agreement. Around other people, I will refrain from showing him love, but when we are alone, I can hug and kiss him.

The first test came when I went to leave for work the other morning. I walked to him as I usually do, ready to give him a kiss goodbye. He gave the me the look of death and then looked at his friend who was at our house to wait for the bus. I retreated and gave him his space. One win for Tre!

Then on Friday night, I was leaving to scrapbook, and TJ was taking the kids to Costco. I went to give hugs and kisses goodbye and Tre said "Mom!" Puzzled, I asked him why I could not kiss him goodbye. He said, "Um, Daddy!" So now I cannot even kiss him around TJ. Oh, my broken heart!